Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau cov ntxhais yog xav tias lawv muaj nuj nqis, hnov cov lus zoo siab rau lawv lub siab thiab tsis txhob maj. Nws tseem yuav hais tias Yog, tsuas yog nws yuav yog nws xaiv. Yog li tus neeg txawv teb chaws tau ua tiav kev tshaj lij - rau qhov nws tau txais qhov khoom plig. Thiab nws yog ib tug txiv mis zoo.
Nws siv sijhawm ntev los thov txim nrog cov lus. Nws yuav tsum tau cia li sawv ntawm qhov ntawd thiab rubbed nws rog dick nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm nws tus muam, nws yuav tau zam txim rau nws nyob rau hauv ib tug thib ob. Peb yuav tsum tawm hws thiab poob lub sij hawm uas peb muaj peev xwm nkim pw, muaj kev sib deev conciliatory.